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The consumerism of Santa Clause today is at a "push and pull" over "the thrill of giving as an anonymous giver". Parents enjoy when they are able to model the idea of giving and not caring to be thanked in person for that gift since the gratitude from the child is shifted from parent to Santa.

Santa, not really a stranger, but a magical secret admirer, if you feel you have earned that admiration becomes someone the parent has to live up to. Parents try to find the object that will create a memorable thrill in their child as they open a package on Christmas morning, or they grieve as they count their dollars and anguish over their inability to make it happen.

Leaving coal in the stocking is not an option for adults who want to perpetuate the myth. Some parents tell the truth about the meaning of Santa Clause early on to reduce the stress and miss out on the receiving of being the child's secret giver of gifts. For the parent, the magic is in the secret of being a giver. They can teach their children to become secret givers not needing to receive a thanks, teaching them that donating to a cause as an anonymous mysterious giver raises the sense of delight in being a "secret Santa".

The Seven of Swords is easily a sneaky way of thinking or talking about a situation. Perhaps parents who enjoy the surprise element of perpetuating the mythical aspects of Santa are being the Seven of Swords much to their own secret delight. Being sneaky (muah-ha-ha -ah), even for a "good" reason has a touch of "evil Santa", don't you think?

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